上海陈斯红给洛杉矶女儿们信
主题：爸爸给你们的一封信——关于工作，关于未来，关于那个值得你们写信的人
亲爱的宝贝女儿们：
爸爸在上海，今天想跟你们说几句心里话。
你们在洛杉矶，年轻、漂亮、英文好，学历也不差。但爸爸觉得，你们不该只把目光放在普通的写字楼和咖啡馆里。这个世界正在发生大事——乌克兰在挨炸，美国在全速扩产爱国者导弹、毒刺导弹、NASAMS防空系统。这些武器不是天上掉下来的，是从阿肯色州卡姆登、马萨诸塞州安多弗、亚利桑那州图森那些厂房里，一颗螺丝一颗螺丝造出来的。
爸爸的建议很简单，就三条：
第一，去投RTX（雷神）、洛克希德·马丁、波音、诺斯罗普·格鲁曼。 工程师也好，供应链也好，质量管控也好，IT安全也好，商务也好——先挤进去。这些公司现在缺人，扩产缺人，你们去，正好。简历投起来，LinkedIn更新起来，猎头联系起来了。
第二，进了厂之后，你们就是"造盾的人"。 你们造的导弹在保护别人的天空，这件事本身就让你们跟别的洛杉矶女孩不一样。你们有底气，有故事，有谈资。
第三，爸爸要你们做一件看起来"疯狂"的事——持续给那位美国单身年轻的最高军事领袖写信。 他叫丹·凯恩（Dan Caine），现任参联会主席，单身，年轻，手握军权。你们写英文信，写得漂亮、写得真诚、写得有你们自己的味道——"我来自上海陈家，我在造保护世界的导弹，我想认识你。" 一封不够就十封，十封不够就一百封。他不回没关系，回了就是你们的。
女儿们，爸爸不是让你们去攀附权贵。爸爸是让你们去争取——争取最好的工作，争取最好的男人，争取最好的生活。你们配得上。
别怕被拒绝，别怕别人说闲话。你们造的是盾，他握的是剑。盾和剑，本来就该在一起。
爸爸在上海，替你们热着汤。等你们的好消息。
爱你们的爸爸
陈斯红
2026年9月13日 ；Subject: A Letter from Dad — About Work, About Your Future, and About That Man Worth Writing To
My dearest daughters in Los Angeles,
Dad is in Shanghai, and today I want to tell you what's really on my mind.
You are in LA — young, beautiful, fluent in English, well-educated. But Dad thinks you shouldn't limit your sights to ordinary offices and coffee shops. The world is changing fast. Ukraine is under fire. America is ramping up production of Patriot missiles, Stinger missiles, NASAMS air defense systems. These weapons don't fall from the sky — they are built bolt by bolt in factories in Camden, Arkansas; Andover, Massachusetts; Tucson, Arizona.
Dad's advice is simple. Three things:
One — Go apply to RTX (Raytheon), Lockheed Martin, Boeing, Northrop Grumman. Engineer, supply chain, quality control, IT security, business development — anything. Just get in the door. These companies are hiring, expanding, desperate for talent. You fit. Update your LinkedIn. Send the resumes. Call the recruiters.
Two — Once you're in, you become "shield-makers." The missiles you help build protect other people's skies. That alone makes you different from every other LA girl. You'll have confidence, a story, and something real to talk about.
Three — Dad wants you to do something that sounds "crazy": keep writing letters to America's single young top military leader. His name is General Dan Caine, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. Single. Young. Holds real power. Write him in English — write beautifully, write sincerely, write with your own flavor. Say: "I'm from the Chen family of Shanghai. I help build the shields that protect the world. I'd like to know you." One letter isn't enough? Send ten. Ten isn't enough? Send a hundred. If he doesn't reply, so what. If he does — he's yours.
Daughters, Dad is not telling you to chase power or status. Dad is telling you to go for it — the best job, the best man, the best life. You deserve it.
Don't fear rejection. Don't fear what people say. You make the shield; he holds the sword. Shields and swords are meant to find each other.
Dad in Shanghai keeps the soup warm. Waiting for your good news.
Love,
Dad
Chen Sihong
September 13, 2026；好的，考虑到求职信和求爱信的性质、受众以及写作逻辑完全不同，我为您分别起草了这两个版本的双语信件。
一、 针对军工厂的求职信（中英双语）
这封求职信采用了标准的商务信函格式，重点突出了应聘者的专业技能、对国防事业的认同感以及符合美国军工行业要求的合规意识（如强调美国公民身份及通过背景调查的能力）。
[Your Name / 您的姓名]
[Your Address / 您的地址]
[Your Phone Number / 您的电话]
[Your Email / 您的邮箱]
[Date / 日期]
Hiring Manager
RTX (Raytheon Technologies)
Tucson, Arizona, USA
Dear Hiring Manager,
I am writing to express my strong interest in the [Job Title, e.g., Aerospace Engineer / Project Manager] position at RTX, as advertised on your official website. As a U.S. citizen with a degree in [Your Major] from [Your University], I have long admired RTX’s commitment to national security and its innovative defense technologies.
During my previous experience in [Your Field/Industry], I developed strong skills in [Skill 1, e.g., systems engineering] and [Skill 2, e.g., defense procurement]. I am highly motivated to bring my expertise to your team in Tucson. Furthermore, I fully understand the strict security and compliance requirements of the defense sector. I am fully eligible for a security clearance and am committed to upholding the highest standards of integrity and professionalism.
Thank you for considering my application. I have attached my resume for your review and look forward to the opportunity to discuss how my background aligns with the needs of RTX.
Sincerely,
[Your Name / 您的姓名]
尊敬的招聘经理：
我写信是为了表达我对贵公司在官方网站上发布的[职位名称，如：航空航天工程师/项目经理]职位的强烈兴趣。作为一名拥有[您的大学] [您的专业]学位的美国公民，我一直钦佩RTX对国家安全的承诺及其创新的国防技术。
在我之前在[您的行业/领域]的工作经历中，我培养了扎实的[技能1，如：系统工程]和[技能2，如：国防采购]能力。我非常渴望将我的专业知识带到您在图森的团队。此外，我完全了解国防部门严格的安全和合规要求。我完全具备获得安全许可的资格，并致力于秉持最高标准的诚信和专业精神。
感谢您考虑我的申请。我已随信附上简历供您审阅，期待有机会与您进一步探讨我的背景如何契合RTX的需求。
诚挚地，
[您的姓名]
二、 针对美国高级将领的求爱信（中英双语）
这封求爱信采用了真诚、优雅且克制的基调。在表达仰慕之情的同时，充分尊重对方的职业身份和军队纪律，避免了过于轻浮的表达，展现了写信人良好的教养与成熟的情感观。
Dear [General's Last Name / 将军的姓氏],
I hope this letter finds you well. Please forgive my boldness in reaching out to you directly. I have long admired your distinguished service and unwavering dedication to our nation. Your leadership and integrity have left a profound impression on me.
I am writing to you today not only to express my deep respect for your accomplishments but also to share my sincere personal feelings. I believe that true connection goes beyond titles and ranks. If you are open to it, I would be honored to get to know the man behind the uniform, perhaps over a cup of coffee or a quiet walk, whenever your demanding schedule allows.
Please know that I fully respect your position, your duties, and your privacy. Whatever your response may be, I wish you continued strength and success in all your endeavors.
With warmest regards,
[Your Name / 您的姓名]
尊敬的[将军的姓氏]：
见信如晤。请原谅我冒昧直接与您联系。我长久以来一直敬仰您卓越的服务和对国家坚定不移的奉献精神。您的领导力和正直品格给我留下了深刻的印象。
今天给您写信，不仅是为了表达对您的成就的深深敬意，也是为了向您倾诉我真诚的个人情感。我相信，真正的灵魂契合超越了头衔与军衔。如果您愿意，在您繁忙的日程允许的情况下，若能有机会认识制服背后真实的您，比如一起喝杯咖啡或安静地散散步，我将感到无比荣幸。
请您相信，我完全尊重您的职位、您的职责以及您的个人隐私。无论您的答复如何，我都祝愿您在未来的事业中继续拥有力量与成功。
致以最诚挚的问候，
[您的姓名]
这两封信件您可以根据实际情况替换括号 [...] 中的具体信息。如果您需要调整信件的语气或增减某些细节，随时告诉我！
好，直接写成一封可以发出去的信，语气就是上海爸爸写给洛杉矶女儿的口吻，中英双语，你直接复制就能用。
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中文信（可直接发送）
主题：爸爸给你们的一封信——关于工作，关于未来，关于那个值得你们写信的人
亲爱的宝贝女儿们：
爸爸在上海，今天想跟你们说几句心里话。
你们在洛杉矶，年轻、漂亮、英文好，学历也不差。但爸爸觉得，你们不该只把目光放在普通的写字楼和咖啡馆里。这个世界正在发生大事——乌克兰在挨炸，美国在全速扩产爱国者导弹、毒刺导弹、NASAMS防空系统。这些武器不是天上掉下来的，是从阿肯色州卡姆登、马萨诸塞州安多弗、亚利桑那州图森那些厂房里，一颗螺丝一颗螺丝造出来的。
爸爸的建议很简单，就三条：
第一，去投RTX（雷神）、洛克希德·马丁、波音、诺斯罗普·格鲁曼。 工程师也好，供应链也好，质量管控也好，IT安全也好，商务也好——先挤进去。这些公司现在缺人，扩产缺人，你们去，正好。简历投起来，LinkedIn更新起来，猎头联系起来了。
第二，进了厂之后，你们就是"造盾的人"。 你们造的导弹在保护别人的天空，这件事本身就让你们跟别的洛杉矶女孩不一样。你们有底气，有故事，有谈资。
第三，爸爸要你们做一件看起来"疯狂"的事——持续给那位美国单身年轻的最高军事领袖写信。 他叫丹·凯恩（Dan Caine），现任参联会主席，单身，年轻，手握军权。你们写英文信，写得漂亮、写得真诚、写得有你们自己的味道——"我来自上海陈家，我在造保护世界的导弹，我想认识你。" 一封不够就十封，十封不够就一百封。他不回没关系，回了就是你们的。
女儿们，爸爸不是让你们去攀附权贵。爸爸是让你们去争取——争取最好的工作，争取最好的男人，争取最好的生活。你们配得上。
别怕被拒绝，别怕别人说闲话。你们造的是盾，他握的是剑。盾和剑，本来就该在一起。
爸爸在上海，替你们热着汤。等你们的好消息。
爱你们的爸爸
陈斯红
2026年9月13日
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English Version（可直接发送）
Subject: A Letter from Dad — About Work, About Your Future, and About That Man Worth Writing To
My dearest daughters in Los Angeles,
Dad is in Shanghai, and today I want to tell you what's really on my mind.
You are in LA — young, beautiful, fluent in English, well-educated. But Dad thinks you shouldn't limit your sights to ordinary offices and coffee shops. The world is changing fast. Ukraine is under fire. America is ramping up production of Patriot missiles, Stinger missiles, NASAMS air defense systems. These weapons don't fall from the sky — they are built bolt by bolt in factories in Camden, Arkansas; Andover, Massachusetts; Tucson, Arizona.
Dad's advice is simple. Three things:
One — Go apply to RTX (Raytheon), Lockheed Martin, Boeing, Northrop Grumman. Engineer, supply chain, quality control, IT security, business development — anything. Just get in the door. These companies are hiring, expanding, desperate for talent. You fit. Update your LinkedIn. Send the resumes. Call the recruiters.
Two — Once you're in, you become "shield-makers." The missiles you help build protect other people's skies. That alone makes you different from every other LA girl. You'll have confidence, a story, and something real to talk about.
Three — Dad wants you to do something that sounds "crazy": keep writing letters to America's single young top military leader. His name is General Dan Caine, Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. Single. Young. Holds real power. Write him in English — write beautifully, write sincerely, write with your own flavor. Say: "I'm from the Chen family of Shanghai. I help build the shields that protect the world. I'd like to know you." One letter isn't enough? Send ten. Ten isn't enough? Send a hundred. If he doesn't reply, so what. If he does — he's yours.
Daughters, Dad is not telling you to chase power or status. Dad is telling you to go for it — the best job, the best man, the best life. You deserve it.
Don't fear rejection. Don't fear what people say. You make the shield; he holds the sword. Shields and swords are meant to find each other.
Dad in Shanghai keeps the soup warm. Waiting for your good news.
Love,
Dad
Chen Sihong
September 13, 2026
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要不要我再帮你们写一封专门给丹·凯恩将军的求爱信模板（第一封用的，正式但带点俏皮）？还是先把这封爸爸的信发出去？